“..Learn character from trees, values from roots and change from leaves…”
— Tasneem Hameed
“..Learn character from trees, values from roots and change from leaves…”
— Tasneem Hameed
“…Be different. Be original. Nobody will remember a specific flower in a garden filled with thousands of the same yellow flower, but they will remember the one that managed to change its colour to purple…”
— Suzy Kassem : Rise Up and Salute the Sun : The Writings of Suzy Kassem
Another weekend done and dusted. Wish they would last longer, although, even if they did, I would still complain they weren’t long enough. This weekend has been restful and relaxing, with beautiful weather and nowhere to be. No plans or schedules. Nothing more taxing than walking down the shop for some milk. I even watched some bad TV, which I rarely do, and slept in without guilt, went walking with a friend (arranged at the last minute) and had a couple of crafty days.
On Friday night I went out with friends from work. I was suffering with a headache and a bad case of the “I really don’t want to go out and be sociable” blues, so wasn’t the best company for anyone. We went to dinner and a pub in the city and then on to a comedy night. It was ok. I kinda get tired of the same old dirty jokes and swearing. I’m not a prude (*stamps foot and pouts*) but I do think it is lazy when comedians use bad language and jokes about sex in order to get a laugh. It’s just a bit…predictable. We also had a group of hecklers in the audience which was VERY annoying. There is nothing uglier than a bunch of middle-aged women, drunk as skunks and twice as obnoxious. It’s just embarrassing. And, as I said, annoying. The comedians managed to get the last laugh on them in the end but it still spoiled much of the acts.
Yesterday I got stuck into K’s order for more jewellery. I finished everything she asked for – hope she likes them all but of course I will change them if not. I made :
…a wood and ceramic necklace with K’s red coral beads. Not sure if I like this one – but it’s not for me so maybe K will like it…
…ceramic and coral earrings…
…and a shell and polished stone necklace.
I also had to fix a couple of things for her and put a clasp on another necklace. I made a few other pieces (for my own stock) as well including :
Then I decided to have a change and try and make some cards. I haven’t had much luck with them lately. Nothing I make seems up to standard, so I was determined today to make something half-way decent. I just need to MAKE THINGS WORK, even when I am unsure of them. I started with a card I am making for a friend at work who is having a baby (girl) soon:
I’m quite pleased with it – I didn’t want to use just the typical girly pinks…
…so I used a combination of pastels and brights and some bold text and buttons.
Then I attempted a more “shabby” card. I have always preferred that kind of style, but just lately I haven’t been able to create anything I’m even remotely happy with. I didn’t do much better today, but it’s a start. So I made this “blooming tree” card with some vintage text and lace:
…it’s ok, not my best effort, but alright!
Lastly, I made a card using some papers that I was given – colours I would not work with normally. I thought I would try and go fairly simple (I have a tendency to just keep on adding things) and stick to the two main colours of orange and mauve. I added some liquid pearls and a stamped sentiment right at the end (I also added another bubble/blob as you can see in the last two photos – it was unbalanced otherwise):
So, not a wasted weekend and one of much rest and solitude. Back to work tomorrow – looking less and less forward to work days as August progresses and the big relocation of 90% of our staff to a new building begins. I’m going to miss everyone (but not the politics) and just don’t know if work will be the same from now on. But I will have to MAKE IT WORK! I need to suck it up and do my job and live my life with a little less whinging, and a little bit more backbone and tenacity. I have always been scared of change and this last year has showed me that I CAN survive it and even learn to embrace it, if I just hang in there. With the divorce coming up, I am a little more fragile than usual and needing support more than ever – but I will have to be my own cheer squad and try to just remember that I actually have things pretty good and will be ok 🙂
Hope your weekend has been happy x
Feeling a bit down in the dumparoo today. Found out some upsetting news last night (news that shouldn’t upset me now that I am all independent and “moving on”and being strong and having respect for myself) but instead of sharing that with you (and boring you to tears, most likely), I will instead share a few pieces of advice from the great website Mark and Angel Hack Life. If you haven’t visited this great little website, you should take some time and have a look today. I’m not one for a lot of self-help kinda stuff, but their advice and sensible tips make SENSE. I find myself going “Oh yeah…”and nodding my head and also feeling a trifle guilty when they say exactly what I am thinking or tell me what I know, deep down, I should be doing already. It’s good to read it daily or even just sporadically when you need a guiding hand to get through the day and to remind yourself that you are actually pretty damn awesome, even if you don’t feel it right now.
Anyway, have a look and see what I mean. It’s worth a visit. In the meantime, here are a few choice snippets from the site, ones that I particularly relate to:
Never apologize for being sensitive or emotional. There’s no reason to be ashamed for feeling something or acting out on it if it’s real to you. It’s a sign that you have a big heart, and that you aren’t afraid to let others know it. Showing your emotions is a sign of human strength.
The people who judge you for being human, and not being modest, emotionless, and “in line,” are the ones who need to apologize
A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences. So be cordial, but don’t completely change who you are for someone else simply because it’s what THEY want, or because it’s what THEY think is best for you. If someone expects you to be someone you’re not, take a step back. It’s wiser to lose relationships over being who you are, than to keep them intact by pretending to be someone else. It’s easier to nurse a little heartache and meet someone new, than it is to piece together your own shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space in your life where somebody else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space within yourself where YOU used to be.
Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus
Start being more polite to yourself. – If you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way that you sometimes speak to yourself, how long would you allow that person to be your friend? The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. You must love who you are or no one else will.
Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve. Sometimes you have to get knocked down lower than you have ever been to stand up taller than you ever were before. Sometimes your eyes need to be washed by your tears so you can see the possibilities in front of you with a clearer vision again. Don’t settle.
Be good to yourselves today 🙂
No, I am not getting married again nor am I sitting in a thrift/op-shop with a half-price tag on me. I just used some sneaky recycling/repurposing to help me make a card.
My cousin bought me some lovely PJs when I was getting married. The top was white with tiny little “jewels” spelling out “Bride”. You could say I’m not a sexy lingerie kinda gal so cute jim-jams were more me. Anyway, it has been several years since said wedding and although I still wear the PJs, the whole “bride” thing is no longer quite so immediate or necessary. The little jewels have actually stayed on for all those years, despite me just chucking the top into the washing machine and taking no care with it whatsoever. So what did I do? I spent a lovely hour painstakingly picking the little buggers off so I could use them in crafting! They are tiny and just perfect for cards or other small pieces of art. So off they came – pick pick pick. Quite therapeutic it was too!
Now I have a nice little jar of them and they didn’t cost me a cent (and yes that is a Tiger Balm jar – they are great for little buttons and other embellishments. I use a lot of this stuff so I have plenty of jars.) Gotta love recycling! They are not too glittery and have an almost antique mirrored look to them. Here’s the first card I made using one of the jewels (apologies for the pegs in the background. The laundry had the best light in it this arvo…) :
I might add some more jewels, maybe to the red circles on the side of the card…not sure yet.
Anyway, birdie has a glittery eye and I’ve made another card. Recycling for the win! 🙂